Friendship among prisoners
Geoffery Truss
Dixon Correctional Center
Contrary to some observers, friendship among prisoners exists, and a few
friendships may even be forged in steel. However, most are forged through
some form of self-gratification, security consciousness, or peer pressure. It
is only through time, trials, and tribulations that friendship develops among
prisoners.
The most prevelant and successful friendships are formed similar to those in
a free society, where people of similar nature, skills, interests, or
education bond. Depending on the nature of the institution (federal or state),
or the security level (maximum, medium, minimum), friendships are also forged
through race, through geographical location, and social ties inside and
outside of prison. Regardless of a prisoner's immediate emotional needs, most
friendships are tempered and controlled by the authoritariansm of prison
control and by peer and clique pressuers. These pressures tend to shape
friendships on the basis of racial prejudice, sexual orientation, and even fear.
Friendship among prisoners thus becomes a pseudo-bond that must be continually
tested and nurtured and allowed to breathe to prove its qualities. Among
prisoners, the ties that reinforce bonding include shared gratification,
security and protection, the need to belong, sex, fear, and sometimes even
greed.
Friendship among prisoners, then, is not a fallacy, and if nurtured, it can
lead to respect and equality while incarcerated. The ultimate test of
friendship, however, is longevity, and whether it endures beyond the prison
walls.